"Qualified Crap"

Am sure we have all gone through some low phases in our lives. I for one have had various instances when I just wished I could vanish into thin air to avoid the scrutiny of this world. But is this life only meant to crib away. I was talking to a friend the other day and he was telling me how he never seemed to find anything in his life worth living for and that he was merely passing each day in bitter agony (all this because the love of his love abandoned him) in normal circumstances a good friend would lend him a shoulder and wipe his tears. But with all my abnormalities intact I just had to knock some sense into the guy.

It seemed to me that all her worries originated from this one word "expectation’’.

Its actually the case in most situations of life when one expects something to happen (or last forever like in the case of my friends love) so bad that when things don’t exactly work out the way we want it too, we just feel devastated and breakdown.

So I guess what we need to do is stop having any sort of expectation from life and people around us this might help ease lots of ‘"pains’’ in one’s life. As for my friend he got through his pain and has found a new passion in life no not another guy this time its books, booze and music. (Talk about substitutes).

Well it’s true that most often what you expect never happens and what you least expect embraces you. It’s this element of mystery that thrills me about life and people, it’s weird I know but I am one of those person’s who loves being taken aback by surprise (don’t confuse with shock)...